The pain, the discomfort, the sickness are what they are. We can always cope with the way life moves and changes. The mind of an enlightened human being is flexible and adaptable. The mind of the ignorant person is conditioned and fixed.

-Ajahn Sumedho,

Looking for peace is like looking for a turtle with a mustache:
You won't be able to find it. But when your heart is ready, peace
will come looking for you.

Ajahn Chah, 1918-1992
Thai Monk and Meditation Master